Many of us have been in that situation before… Our spouse is behaving aloof as if something is wrong with them, and they aren’t as interested as they once were. (Perhaps they’re even a little chilly.) And their recent actions have you perplexed and wondering, “What is going on?”
When you ask them how they are, they reply they are OK, or that they are weary, or that work is stressful. Is that, however, the end of it?
Not understanding why your spouse is acting strangely may be frustrating, especially if they refuse to acknowledge that they are acting strangely.
If you’re stumped but still attempting to find out what’s going on, consider the following three possibilities:
1. Their emotions have been harmed.
You may not know it, but you may have damaged your partner’s feelings with something you said or did. It might be as simple as making an innocent joke that someone misinterpreted, or something you said that resurfaced an old wound.
2. They are terrified.
It’s possible that the person you’re dating is retreating because things are moving too quickly for them and they’re not prepared. It’s possible that the sensations they experience are too strong, or that the feelings they detect from you are too strong. In any case, they’re terrified and unsure of what to do.
3. They are deceitful.
Let us begin with the elephant in the room. Someone acting strangely might be concealing something, which could include infidelity.
Source:Zoosk
