The dating style has changed a lot in recent years. If you’ve been seeing a guy for a while but yet you are unsure if you are in a real relationship or it’s just a fling or a hook up with no strings attached. It can be very easy to overthink and claim whether the guy (or girl) you’re seeing wants something serious or if he just sees you as a short-time snack, especially in this modern world, where changing relationships is as easy as changing clothes. There’s no point in wasting your time if you wish for something serious and all you get is a fling from the other person.
Here are 3 ways to know if the guy you are seeing is interested in you or he is just into your looks and body and doesn’t want anything permanent.
He never lets you meet his family or friends
He never tries to make you meet his family or talk or discuss his family. He never introduces you to his family and keeps you a secret. He doesn’t want his parents to know that you are his girlfriend. This is a clear sign that he doesn’t want you in the future.
Another big thing is if he doesn’t make an effort to hang out
Another big way to know if he is just into hooking up is that he doesn’t make efforts to hang out with you or spend time with you. You have to force him to do so. If he was falling for you he would know that he has to make an effort.
He doesn’t make plans for the future
He never makes any plans about the future. He makes plans that are in the moment, and never wants to make promising plans. This is a clear sign that he is not really into you, he is just looking for casual dating.