When you get married you have to come across in-laws. For males and females, they have to deal with different cultured, different behaviour of their in-laws. Most of the time they find it difficult to impress in-laws. Since we can’t choose in-laws it is important to reach common ground, if you are finding it difficult to get along with them. The root of the problem is the difference in one’s upbringing. Each family has its values, tradition and routines. Everything from an upbringing of children, housework cooking, etc. are varied from family to family. When your in-law’s behaviour is completely different from yours, differences of opinion and problems can arise. Here have a look at on how you can do it.
First, the thing is you and your partner must come together and should agree with each other’s opinion. If both of supportive of each other conflicts with in-laws can be minimised. Everyone having annoying habits. As a couple makes a list of annoying habits of in-laws. Whichever things you didn’t like, directly speak and tell them to stop. If there is a difference of opinion in cooking style and skills, better discuss and share the knowledge and don’t forget to thanks in-laws for cooking food, irrespective of your different opinion about that food prepared by in-laws.
Parenting ability of in-laws may not be up to the mark and you may not be satisfied with it. But accept one fact that in your absence they are taking care of your kids and to impress them, use good words of appreciation. If your in-laws staying far away from you, better call them frequently. Take time to speak with them and enquire about their feelings.
Communication is very important for all of us in the family. Irrespective of the busy schedule try your best to communicate with in-laws. They feel happy and don’t feel lonely if you’re in touch with them. Due to the generation gap, your in-laws may ask tricky or questions. Try to answer them politely and don’t get angry.