Your Feelings Don’t Change

“Your sentiments don’t diminish with time but develop stronger and deeper,” explains Irina Fierstein, LCSW, as an indication that this is more than an infatuation. So, if you’ve been feeling this way about your special someone for a long time, it’s very likely that you’re in love with them.

You Give Them Your Complete Attention

According to Sadie Allison, PhD, a s*x educator and founder of GoLove CBD lube, if you love someone, you’re likely to give them your complete attention. It shouldn’t be difficult for you to stay engaged in the conversation and maintain eye contact.


You Talk About Anything And Everything

When you simply have a crush on that one person, it’s simple to ignore the underlying issues. When it comes to love, however, it’s a different story. Allison explains that these discussions can be lengthy. “You want to know what makes people tick, what drives them, what their aspirations and interests are, as well as their background, family, and upbringing.”

It’s Easy To Make Plans With Them

When you’re in love with someone, it’s normal to fantasise about a future with them. “It feels more manageable to prepare ahead,” Allison explains. Whether you want them to or not, they become inexorably linked to your life.