Relationships are fragile until they are confirmed or committed, one might go through a lot of breakups and patch-ups. Once you break up with someone you become their ex and vice versa. Many relationships tend to rejoin after a breakup once they realise they can’t do without each other. Many ladies have gotten back with their ex after some period of break.
Well, you have broken up for a reason and when you want to get back with them there has to be good reasoning as well. Considering all that, here are 5 questions every lady must ask themselves before getting back with your ex.
Have You Given Yourself Space From Your Ex?
Have you had your alone time thinking about yourself, or your past mistakes or the things you can improve! Give yourself that time to think away from your partner or your ex and focus on yourself. If you have done this and felt that the time you spent with your ex was better than you can think of getting back.
Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex?
Know the reasons why you broke with your ex or why you were willing to give up on your relationship. Analyze if you need the lost time with your ex or if he is worth getting back with!
Are You Holding On To The Past?
Think of it, are you holding on to the past? Are you still wanting him to be the way he was? Because that might not be the case, things are changed between you, and you got to accept it.
Have They Changed?
If you left your ex for a particular reason or habit understand if he has changed his habits. Make sure is better than what he was, try to test his behaviour towards you.
Do They Bring Out The Best In You?
Question yourself whether that’s what you want for yourself if that’s what makes you the happiest if that’s the best you could have!