One of the biggest tasks to achieve is to have consistent and good parenting. There may be few instances of bad parenting which may have the last consequences on children. Some parents while nurturing their children use their upbringing as a blueprint for parenting, which is not acceptable and practical due to the evolution of society and social environment. It is proven that certain practices of parenting are more harmful than they are beneficial to your child. There are many points at which parents lack the proper nurturing of their children. Here we look at a few such point.
Reprimanding the child excessively:
This practice of reprimanding excessively is very bad. This practice can have a worse effect if your child has displayed honesty as well as a confession to mistakes.
Disciplining child in front of everyone:
Discipline is very good for your child, but when he is alone. If you scold, yell or even hit your child in front of others may have a serious impact on a child’s confidence and the feeling of shame will be hard to shake off.
Withholding affection:
If you hold your affection by not hugging or showing love to your child, will make your child feel emotionally disconnected from you.
No encouragement, all advice.
You are not encouraging your child, instead, you give all kinds of advice about each and everything, from brushing your teeth to picking the right clothes.
Not setting rules:
If the child doesn’t grow with discipline, he/she will suffer in environments outside the home. It is better to set rules and regulations.
Lack of support:
Give all kinds of support while nurturing your child. When a child is giving an exam and in stressful situations, you need to support him.
Being overprotective:
Don’t be overprotective while nurturing your child. This will make the child fearful, and afraid of taking any type of risk.
Also don’t compare your child with anyone. Don’t always criticize your child. It will leave a negative mark on them. And always respect their feelings.