Arrange marriages are preferred mostly in rural areas and in some cases in urban areas. It is arranged by family members and parents. It is like the relationship between the two families. Normally proposal comes from a middle man or negotiated directly. Parents mostly consider their views when people from the boy’s side come to see the girl. And marriage is finalized when dowry and other demands are finally decided at the time of engagement. Gifts also exchanged. Though then there are pros and cons of having arranged marriage. Here are a few among them.
PROS.
* It is accepted in society. Also, the entire responsibility of the marriage is undertaken by both the parents.
* In-laws’ understanding is better in an arranged marriage.
* Also there is a better understanding between families and bonding can be strong.
*In the case of arranged marriage, children are well looked after by the in-laws. Proper care is taken when parents are out of place.
* In case of any calamity or accidents or other misfortune, both families can come together and try to lessen the burden.
* prospect of children is bright as they receive a lot of love and guidance from experienced people.
CONS.
* To keep prestige parents go in spending a huge amount. There are chances of a heavy financial burden.
* Also dowry system in arranged marriage may create misunderstanding and which may give rise to torture, and bride burning.
* Sometimes due to high demand girls unable to get married.
* There are chances of conflicts between families and partners.
* Last one is related to the relationship of young couples, which may become unsuccessful. It happens due to much interference of family members in a young couple’s life.
