You get married and after years into marriage, you get to realize many things that change your perspective about marriage, emotions, and relationships. The first honeymoon period, then a period of married life with kids, and then a period with adult children. Excitement can decrease and you will learn real lessons in your marital life. Here we have a look at a few things no one will tell you about your life after marriage.
IT WON’T BE PASSIONATE.
At the beginning of the marriage, couples experience some exciting moments but after a few periods, this excitement may decrease. Talking about money and finances seems easy but as money includes power and position it can cause disagreements. Sometimes they give wrong information to each other about finances, which leads to misunderstanding.
KIDS NOT ALWAYS PRIORITY.
Children make a marriage stronger but you should not depend upon them. You should understand that one day they will have their own life. You should think about yourself and your partner.
IT IS ABOUT TRUST AND UNDERSTANDING.
Marriage is different from all other things involved in your life. It requires efforts, support, trust, and a huge understanding. You both have to be like a strong team. In difficult times, you should give up personal opinion and come to one decision.
MARRIAGE IS 50:50.
In most married couples, it has been observed that one person is giving more effort compared to others. You need to fill this gap to be happy.