Do you ever feel like your girlfriend has suddenly become silent in your relationship? Most of the time, she’ll talk your ear off even when all you want is peace, but when she finally does, you’re apprehensive, as if there’s something sinister in the air.
In cases like these, it’s usually better to just ask and get it over with. If left to fester for too long, it may explode like Mount Fuji, destroying your relationship completely. Isn’t it better to pull the plaster off than to drag the agony out little by bit and so on?
Here are three ridiculously real reasons why your girlfriend’s silence is harmful.
1. She’s worried about something
The quiet treatment is generally reserved for expressing her disapproval without saying something she could regret later.
2. She starts feeling like the entire relationship is a mistake
She’ll always have a point in the relationship, generally after the honeymoon stage has passed, when she wonders if you’re the proper person for her. Rather than leaving it to her to make the decision in her brain (we all know how wild girls’ imaginations can be), ask her to open up and talk about it.
3. She’s being insecure
Is it that new, attractive female coworker or project partner? Maybe she discovered that your ex has been like all of your Facebook and Instagram images. If you leave it up to her, she could dump you before you can dump her.
Source: goody feed
