Few people have a belief that society is ruled by egotistical behavior. We normally do things on selfish whims. Most of us do things for our benefit and the welfare of others. There is a huge difference between ego and confidence. Vanity, desire, fear, competition, are all distortions within our ego. Ego behavior is a bad state of mind. If you add this distortion to our egos, you will see how cloudy the glass must become through which we look at each other. The person who suffers from a huge ego sees their opinion only matters. Facts are less important to them and they are driven by what they believe. Here are 5 signs that you have a big ego.
THEY HAVE TO BE ALWAYS RIGHT.
This type of person wants to be right always and they get enraged when they are accused of being wrong. The ego is good to make decisions. However unhealthy ego doesn’t see past their own need and desires.
THEY ALWAYS WANT MORE.
The highly egoistic person never gets satisfied. Their accomplishments dictate their behavior. They can’t accept the right things. They want to show that they are better than others.
THEY MUST WIN ALWAYS.
The huge ego always doesn’t accept the loss. They must be number one in everything they go for. They may hurt others but will try for their goals. They are disloyal and disrespectful. The egotistical person will have a tantrum if they are on the losing end.
THEY WANT CONSTANT RECOGNITION.
They will exaggerate any talents and achievements. They will tell stories of the past again and again to acquire recognition. They want others to see them perfect though their success is limited.
THEY WANT ONE-SIDED CONVERSATION.
They don’t understand what it is to support others with their dreams, ideas, and emotions. They don’t have social cues on giving and take relationships. Egoistical people will never show concern for others.